We were sitting at the kitchen counter this afternoon. Finishing up how many pennies make a nickel for first grade homework. There was a knock at the door. Sam drops his pencil. “Gracie!” he shouts and runs for the door.
Sure enough, there is Grace, our across the street neighbor. She is standing with her wagon full of chocolate bars. “Sam, want to go around the circle with me? I have more candy bars to sell.”
He looks to me and seeing my smile, he quickly puts on his shoes. He grabs some money to buy one of them. I stand at the door watching the two of them. I see Sam open one of the chocolate bars. He calls back “Mama, I think this would help sell them if I tell people how good they are. I’ll be a taste tester.” Further cementing my thoughts that he will be in sales or some sort of negotiating role.
Grace has been on vacation the last ten days. My son’s favorite playmate and friend. He is so excited she is home.
When we moved into our neighborhood this past spring, I wondered how it would be for Samuel. He loved his kindergarten. Now he would be in a different school.
Grace quickly alleviated concerns I had. All summer they ran back and forth across our tucked away street. They swam and rode scooters. They caught lightning bugs and ran around with the kids in the neighborhood. They played legos and rode in a pink motorized jeep. They made their own movie called “The Princess and the Robot”, because as Grace told me, they like different things.
And by the time fall rolled around, the first bus stop morning felt like we had lived here for years.
Just like her namesake, their friendship has been evidence of God’s goodness to me.
There is a tenderness and sweetness that I want to capture. I want to hold on to it. For them. For me. They pour out forgiveness and kindness not worrying that its supply will ever end. They teach me the truth that it won’t.
They teach me the truth that life is to be savored. Even when hard stuff comes- and to a six-year-old boy who trips and his glass jar with lightning bugs shatters on the driveway, hard stuff does come. Even when it comes, they cry…and they keep trusting. They keep laughing.
They are my teachers in this noticing business.
Another neighbor recently commented on their friendship, seeing how well they play together. She said “I wonder when the day will come that they decide boys and girls don’t play with each other?”
My prayer as I type these words is “Never”. Maybe I’m too idealistic in saying that. If so, I learned it from Grace and Sam.
I’m participating with The Nester in 31 Days of Noticing the Moment. This is Day 9.
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What a great post, Melanie. Glad to see the friendships Samuel has have really blossomed. I always learn so much from my kids and through parenting them. God uses it all. It was a pleasure to read your post this morning over my morning coffee (yeah, that’s an admission that I don’t always read all of them- today I stole a few moments before the promised bird house painting) Still, every post I read always makes my day better and reminds me to check in with God to see what He may have planned for the day. Take care.
I’m your “neighbor” today at #TellHisStory. Kids sure are good teachers! They show me so much about myself and the world. The innocence I’ve lost reborn watching kids just being. I love that! What a sweet friendship! I like your noticing series. Similar to my 31 days on intentional living — noticing is definitely part of that.
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Kids, dogs, cats…all full of lessons we are often too grown up to learn!
Thanks, Melanie 🙂
So beautiful!!!!
Oh, the sweet innocence of youth. Part of me hopes mine never lose that. It’s nice to be reminded to live in the moment, thank you, because time passes so quickly!
What a sweet, tender story. Thank you for linking with us at #TellHisStory.
Our and one of our Pastor’s sons had this same relationship. They would ride the bus to each other’s houses and were the best of friends. A day did come when kids would tease about them “liking” each other but before long they ignored it and the friendship continued. There was a brief time in High School when they wondered if they really did “like” each other but chose to just remain friends. They are each married now, (not to each other haha) and still the best of friends. I pray that for your son too : )